Are you in a new relationship but find yourself obsessing over your ex? Use these 10 signs to find out if your past relationship is affecting your present.
It’s been said more than once that one of the easiest ways to get over a past relationship is by jumping into a new one.
It’s easy, fast and a safe way to avoid heartbreak almost completely.
After all, old love lost can always be replaced by new love gained.
But what do you do when you find new love, but still find yourself obsessing over your old love?
It could happen to any of us.
You may date someone new, but inside, you may secretly dream of getting back with you ex.
Ever been there?
Moving on from a past relationship
Rebound relationships are perfect cures for heartbreak.
But to actually get over a relationship, you need to learn to accept the end.
Unless you learn to convince yourself that you need to move on, your thoughts about your ex will always linger on no matter how many new people you date or have sex with.
Past relationships can affect your life forever
You may date someone new, but you’ll never be able to truly love them unless you let go of the illusion of love you’ve created around your ex. Your happy moments will never feel happy, and the minor arguments you have with your present lover will only make you want to get back with your ex even more, even though there’s no chance of that ever happening.
Remember, your ex and you broke up for a reason. There’s nothing you can do about it but move on. Fantasizing about it will only make you feel miserable and leave you unhappy, even if you’re in a relationship that’s far better than the one you’ve shared with your ex.
Signs your past relationship is holding you back
It’s alright to think fondly of your ex now and then. After all, you did share a lot of great moments with them. But unless you close the past chapter and start your present romance with a clean slate, you’ll never be able to move on. And the love that you experience with anyone else will never truly be love, because you’re still holding on to the love you have for someone else, someone who will never love you back again.
Are you still in love with your ex? Use these 10 signs to find out of your ex is ruining your present romance and any chances of a happier life.
#1 Comparisons. In your mind, do you constantly find yourself comparing every little detail of your new relationship with your past relationship? You have to understand that no relationship is ever the same. Instead of comparing how one relationship is better than the other, just learn to enjoy the present romance. After all, pros and cons never work in love, instincts and feelings do.