Do you want to grab your love’s notice? There are so many little things you can do to rekindle the spark in your relationship and catch his loving attention again. Try out these 15 ways, and he won’t be able to resist you.
- Do his favorite hobby with him
Whether he likes art, outdoor activities, sports or cooking, give it a go with him. He’ll absolutely love spending time with you doing the thing he loves, and he’ll recognize your effort.
- Kiss him extra long
Do you usually part with a little peck? Make it more of a kiss. Whenever you feel him going in for a quick kiss, happily surprise him by making it longer.
- Tell him you love him at times you normally wouldn’t
We all have our normal times we say “love ya” to each other in our relationships. Sometimes, those repetitious timings lose a bit of the meaning. So add in a few sporadic, meaningful “Hey, I love you’s” over breakfast, in the car, etc.
- Bring up favorite memories together
Start a conversation saying “Remember when…” He’ll love reminiscing about the good times you’ve shared.
To really grab your lover’s attention, you need to shut that laptop and put down that phone. Be 100 percent present in each moment and conversation with him.
- Do a chore he usually does
Think about a chore he usually takes on and surprise him by beating him to it once in a while.
- Tasteful PDA
Yes, there is such a thing. Don’t get gross, but hugs and kisses and hand-holding can work wonders. He’ll love the extra romance and affection you’ll display.
- Text him in the middle of the day
A thoughtful, fun or flirty text can make his day. It’s such a small thing that can mean so much to the receiver.
- Turn up the flirting
Remember those earlier dating times when there were high levels of flirting between the two of you? He won’t be able to resist you when you go back to that flirting mode.
- Ask him “Is there anything I can do to make your day better?”
Wake up, roll over and ask him. It’ll really make a difference to him.
- Ask him a meaningful question, and then REALLY listen
Even a question as routine as “How was your day?” can really be meaningful if you put in the effort to show him you’re truly listening and you truly care.
- Wear his favorite
Remember that time he commented he especially loved one of your outfits? Wear it again on your next date night.
- Make a list of reasons you love him
Whether you write it down and give the list to him or just make a list in your head and tell him, you’ll absolutely grab his loving attention.
- Pay a visit to Victoria’s Secret
- Show extra enthusiasm when he shares good news
The next time he shares good news with you, big or small, show genuine enthusiasm and interest. Whether he just got a promotion or he found a new favorite restaurant, celebrate.
Do these 15 things and you’ll be sure to grab the attention of the man you love. Not only will he give you his attention – he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.