10 Hidden Life Killers You Are Tolerating That Are Stressing You Out

Are you constantly stressed out? Does your stress seem to have no immediate cause or solution? Here are 10 hidden stressors that can make you miserable and ruin your life.

Many times in life, it feels like everything is bad. You are so stressed that you cannot imagine a life without difficulty. Well, a good life is possible. Here are ten things to look for and handle that will smooth it all out for you and put you back in control. cool stuff for kids cool stuff for girls cool stuff to draw cool stuff

1. Recognize that there are people who are out to sabotage you and are intentionally trying to be difficult.

Yes, I know it sounds paranoid, but these people exist, and when you recognize that they exist and take actions to protect yourself and those around, your life can magically smooth out.

Back in the day I managed an insurance claims office. It was a very stressful job and the reason it was so stressful, I later found out, was because there were two of my staff members who had nothing better to do than stir the pot with their co-workers. cool stuff for kids cool stuff for girls cool stuff to draw cool stuff

They would tell one person lies about another person in the office, then go to the person that they had first slandered and tell lies about the other person. This pitted the two people against each other while the one manufacturing and telling the lies would sit back and watch the drama. cool stuff for kids cool stuff for girls cool stuff to draw cool stuff

It happened over and over again. The entire office was in chaos and my staff were at each other’s throats. It was all because of these two people. Since the whole office was involved, I could not see the source of the trouble.

It turned out that these two pot stirrers were also the least productive of my staff, so I ultimately fired them. After I did this, everything smoothed out and the work got done.  It was like magic. These people hide themselves well but here are some clues to spotting them: cool stuff for kids cool stuff for girls cool stuff to draw cool stuff

Be suspicious when someone tells you gossip about a friend, family member or co worker. Chances are they are telling lies and gossip about you to other people as well.

Be suspicious when someone laughs or takes pleasure in another person’s pain or discomfort. This is a sign of sadistic personality. cool stuff for kids cool stuff for girls cool stuff to draw cool stuff

Be suspicious when two people are constantly arguing and they can’t solve their differences. When this occurs, suspect that there are lies being told by another person who does not appear to be part of the conflict. Act accordingly. You can ask each one whether someone else has been talking down the other person.

You could be very surprised. Normal, ethical people have a hard time believing that someone would initiate hatred and upset just for sport, but it does happen and you need to be aware and protect yourself. cool stuff for kids cool stuff for girls cool stuff to draw cool stuff

Be suspicious when someone you have been in good communication with suddenly is cold and hostile to you. Ask that person who has said something negative about you and clear the air. Then deal with the person telling the lies. The people who do these things depend on secrecy and “confidentiality,” banking on the fact that the person being lied to will protect their secrets. Don’t play that game. Open and clean communication is the key to harmony. When secret and harmful lies are told, it opens the door to hostility and chaos. cool stuff for kids cool stuff for girls cool stuff to draw cool stuff

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