Ever wondered how guys flirt? You may think it’s obvious, but guys can flirt in many subtle ways that might not be immediately obvious to a girl.
If you are wondering whether he really likes you, if he is interested in you in THAT way, or if he is just being friendly, read on to find out the awesome, subtle, and sometimes-weird things a guy can do when trying to impress a girl!
Subtle flirting signs
Although these signs might not seem like clear indications of romantic interest, they are simple, subtle symptoms of a love bug bite.
#1 He asks you questions. If a guy is interested in you, he wants to know more about you. Kind of a no-brainer, right? Pay attention to how many questions a guy is asking you. If he’s flirting, he will be far more interested in talking about you than talking about himself.
Asking question after question is also a sign of nervousness—he is desperate to keep the conversation going, and is worried there will be awkward silences if he doesn’t keep talking. Look out for random and irrelevant questions—this just means he is desperately racking his brain to think of something else to say, bless him!
Remember: there is a difference between general questions that come about in everyday conversation, and questions targeted to get to know you better. One shows polite interest in small talk, while the other is an attempt to flirt.
#2 He finds things in common with you. When a guy is flirting with you, he will subtly try to find out what kind of things you like… and lo and behold, when he does, he will miraculously like them, too! He may well be genuinely trying to find out your interests and hobbies to see if you’d make a good match and have things to talk about in the long term, but he’s also trying to extract information out of you so he can impress you.
For example, if you mentioned you love horseback riding and the next time you talk to him, he not only loves it, but appears to know a lot of random information about it, you can safely conclude that he is interested.