How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date: 15 Ideas to Inspire Creativity

#2 Test the waters. We know asking a girl out directly feels a bit overwhelming, so why not test the waters by striking up a conversation with her first? You don’t have to immediately show your hand. Just be friendly and chat with her for a bit and leave it at that.


The next time you see her strike up a conversation again. Don’t keep this up for too long otherwise you run the risk of ending up in the ‘friend’ zone. Instead keep it light and flirty, and ask her out in good time.

#3 Offer to help her. We’re not saying you must be a knight in shining armor but offering to help her with something shows her your interest as well as being a true gentleman! Offer to pay for her coffee, your coat if she looks cold, open a door for her, or carry her bags. If she accepts your help this is a good sign that she is interested in you too.

#4 Make an effort. If you want to ask her out, make sure you don’t blow your chances by letting yourself down. It doesn’t take that much bother to make sure you picked out a cool outfit to wear, taken a shower, and put on some nice cologne. If you look and smell nice you make a good impression.

If you don’t make any effort at all this could be off-putting to her and signal you don’t think she is worth the effort and won’t make much of an effort when you actually take her out either.

So now that you have the basics down, consider these things when actually asking her out.

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