Whether this person was a lover or friend, it doesn’t matter—they’re out of your life. All you want to do is to learn how to forget someone.
Getting over someone isn’t easy. Maybe they betrayed you, dumped you, or you realized they’re toxic. Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter. Now, they’re no longer a part of your life. Though that may be hard to read, it’s the truth. Learning how to forget someone is the only way to help you move on from the pain.
How to forget someone in a hurry
I’ve lost a couple friendships for various reasons, and you think it’ll be easy to move on. Sometimes it’s harder than you thought. Why? Well, this person was a part of your life, you love them no matter if they were just a friend. Having them out of your life feels like a hole in your existence since they helped you become who you are.
Now, after reading that you may be feeling sad, thinking you want them back in your life. To be honest, I don’t know what happened, so maybe having them back in your life isn’t a bad idea. But, if you’re not interested in having them in your life then you’ve made your decision. Making that decision isn’t the hard part. The hard part comes when you need to live with the decision you made. It’s all in your head.
#1 You can’t forget them. This isn’t Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind or Men in Black. I just can’t hook you up to a machine and erase all the memories of this person from your head. Though, I bet business would be booming. But the point is, you can’t forget them in the sense of removing them from your mind. So, don’t focus on “forgetting” them per se, but rather moving on from them. [Read: Dealing with heartbreak: 10 steps to do it the right way]