#3 Go slow. You wanna rush, I know. You want her to think about you, and the next day you ask her out and then the day after that you start dating. I know how it works! But the reality is, if you want her to think about you, you need to go slow. It’s like making a stew. Yeah, you can cook it quickly, but the true flavors rise over time. You need to build the tension between you two and that takes time.
#4 Easy with the texting. I’m fully aware that texting is how we all communicate, but there’s a point where it becomes too much. Remember what I said before, if you’re always there then you won’t give her any time to think about you.
This is the mistake so many people make. Let a conversation die naturally over text, don’t text her every five minutes. Let her breathe. She can’t miss you if you’re always there.
#5 Don’t follow the routine. If you typically text each other at night, switch the routine up. People like spontaneity and doing things out of the routine will make her think about you. Why? Because you’re breaking the pattern that you’ve developed with her. She usually knows when you go to work or when you’re going to text her. By not sticking to the routine, you keep her on her toes, and you on her mind.
#6 Surprise her. Okay, you don’t need to take her on a romantic picnic or lay under the stars. Of course, you can do that if you want to, but it’s not necessary. Surprises don’t need to be big and fancy, they just need to have some effort put into them. Surprise her with a book she really likes or something that reminded you of her.