#7 Don’t get too mushy. I know you like her a lot, and there’s no problem showing her how you feel. But if you want to know how to make a girl think about you, you’ll want to keep your emotions a little low key in the beginning.
For me, it sucks because I’m emotional and I like to express my feelings when I like someone, but sometimes this can be seen as looking desperate. So, rather than looking like you’re head-over-heels in love, be a little reserved with your feelings in the beginning.
#8 Desire comes from a sense of uncertainty. When you manage to get yourself into the head of a girl, it’s because you rattled her mind a little bit, you took her off her routine. This is essentially what makes her think about you. You’ve made yourself different from the other guys, and you present to her a side of mystery that the others don’t show.
#9 Compliment her the right way. There is a right and wrong way when it comes to compliments. The wrong way is calling her, “sexy bitch” or “juicy ass.” I mean, come on, there are better ways to compliment a woman, honestly. If you treat her like she’s a piece of meat, you’re not going to get far. But if you compliment her in a way that shows respect, those words will stick in her mind.
#10 You are still your first priority. When we like someone, we tend to throw in everything we have to get them to like us back. This is the wrong way to go about it. Regardless of who the person is that you like, make sure that you don’t make them a priority over yourself. This will provide you with some boundaries, but also make her think about you because it gives off the impression that you’re a challenge.