Men today have no idea how to successfully pursue women.
They chomp at the bit the moment they find women who grab their attention, pulling out every weapon in their arsenals to attract them.
“You’re so beautiful.” “Why are you single?” “Let me take you out sometime. I’m not like the rest.”
I’m sure this sounds all too familiar to most women. It’s unnatural, and it’s far from genuine. But somehow, we’ve allowed it.
Welcome to 2015 and the wonderful world of dating. We no longer put forth any effort. And when I say effort, I’m not eluding to what we say; I’m referring to what we do.
So men, consider this:
1. BE GENUINE.
Throwing yourself at her isn’t going to score you any points. Whether you’re constantly telling her she’s beautiful, or blowing up her phone all hours of the day by telling her you’re great, none of it is gaining her attention. Just stop.
If you’re the type who believes in playing “hard to get,” and you ignore her all day, she won’t be interested, either.
All this displays is immaturity.
Instead, be genuine. Allow your intentions to be true. Refrain from acting like she’s an object you’re trying to win, and treat her like a woman whose respect you’re trying to gain.
There’s way more to her than what you’re attracted to on the surface, so make a valiant effort to uncover it. She spends her days and nights just like you: working, thinking, planning and building. Take an interest in every aspect of her day-to-day.
Reply when she texts you. Pick up the phone when she calls you. And never be afraid to be the first to say hello and ask how her day is going.
When you do something for her, do it out of the kindness of your heart. If you’re interested in her, you’ll find appreciation for all aspects of her life.
In return, she’ll learn to appreciate, trust and respect you.