A girl’s mind can make for the most interesting wonderland to explore. There are all sorts of things going on in there, it’s a wonder that ladies don’t burn themselves out with all the thoughts that run through their brains. Ladies tend to be more of over-thinkers compared to boys especially when it comes to relationships. Of all the crazy things that cross a girl’s mind, there are a few questions in particular that she just can’t help but think about throughout the course of your relationship.
It make take her some time to work up the courage to actually ask you these questions, and be patient with her when she does. Anticipate these questions and don’t take offense to any of them. It takes a big deal for her to be actually asking you these questions and be sensitive with your answers.
Here are 8 questions that your girl is secretly dying to ask you:
1. “Are you really in love with me?”
No matter how many times you’ve uttered those three words, your girl is going to need constant reassurance. She likes to hear it over and over again, not because she’s insecure, but just because she likes to hear you constantly reaffirming her of your love for her. It makes her feel nice and wanted. Just do her a favor and make her feel special by uttering an “I love you” every now and then.
2. “How much do you love me exactly?”
While it can be difficult to quantify love, she will want some concrete quantifications. She will want to know how much you love her in degrees. Would you die for her? Would you change who you are for her love? Would you be willing to live a difficult life just so you could keep her in it? These are some important questions that she will want answers to in order to feel comfortable about your relationship.
3. “Would you still be with me even if your parents don’t think I’m good enough?”
This is a very tricky question most especially if you love your parents and would never do anything to hurt them. The best advice that we could give you when answering this question is to assure her that there is absolutely nothing about her that your parents would hate. Make her feel like she’s perfect and that it’s virtually impossible for anyone not to like her. You’re extremely proud to have her as a girlfriend and make sure she knows it.
4. “How deep have you gotten with other girls in previous relationships?”
This is another tricky area and we urge you to venture lightly. Be honest and open about your exes but be sensitive with the language you use. What’s important is that in the end, she will still end up feeling like there’s a future that’s in store for the both of you. She will still want to know that your exes don’t matter to you anymore and that she is your only one.
5. “Have you ever wanted to marry an ex?”
Again, just be honest. Reassure her of your feelings for her and that she’s the only one who occupies your heart at the moment. No one could possibly do anything to replace her in your life and you don’t ever plan on breaking her heart. If you’re still unsure about marriage plans with her, be honest about where you are, and make her understand where you’re coming from. She just wants complete honesty from you, and you should grant her that privilege.
6. “Does your best friend like me?”
To her, you are the world. And your world is essentially her world as well. She knows all the things and people that are important in your life. She loves you so much that she even wants to know what your best friend thinks about her. Make her feel safe and secure in your love for her, and that no opinion other than your own matters. Let her know that you prioritize her well-being over anything else.
7. “Do other girls still catch your attention?”
It’s perfectly fine to appreciate beauty in other girls, and you should let her know this. If you’re always expressing your love and care for her, she should be confident enough to know that you only have space in your heart for her. And while you do notice the beauty in others, it should only be her beauty that shines through and manages to leave a lasting imprint on your soul.
8. “Do you find any of your exes prettier than me?”
Tell her that it doesn’t matter because your exes are no longer in your life because she is your whole life now. Let her know that her beauty is unparalleled and that you refuse to entertain the thought of living a life without her in it.