Every man will always carry an individuality that they alone can own up to and that no one else can take. While no two men can ever be the same person, there are some universalities that are present among all men. There are common traits and preferences that exist among the male culture and in particular, their preferences when it comes to the ladies. Attraction is such an abstract and complicated subject, but it doesn’t mean we can’t recognize it when it’s there.
There just some general principles that direct attraction between men and women, and these are some trends that we’ve found to make men absolutely crazy about their ladies. Here are some secret things that can make men go head-over-heels crazy for you:
There are few things more attractive than a girl who is passionate about something. Whether it be for an advocacy, her career, a piece of art, or about another person, a passionate woman is someone who exudes zeal and resilience. Men like seeing women who are passionate and driven about various things because they realize they now have a chance to be at the receiving end of such passion.
2. Interest in Sports and Fitness
If you know your way around traditional “man-talk” of football or fitness regimens, then yes, that’s a big turn-on for guys. It shows that you take a genuine interest in their own interests as well, and that you’re also mature enough to take care of your body by keeping feet. An interest in these things will also contribute to your list of conversation topics. Drive him absolutely crazy with a dose of locker room talk.
3. Cooking Skills
We all know the cliché of a woman getting to a man’s heart through his stomach. It’s a cliché because it’s so true. Men will rejoice at the thought of a woman who knows her way around the kitchen and is able to make gourmet meals right at home. Some kitchen know-how will go a long way for women. There are few things that men find sexier than a lady in an apron making breakfast for them after a night together in bed.
4. Yoga Pants
Yoga pants can drive a man’s animal fantasy through the roof. They do just enough to accentuate a woman’s curves and assets without revealing too much. It also gives of the impression that a woman is health-conscious and practices yoga often (even when that really isn’t the case).
Sure, you may have been teased about your eyeglasses when you were a kid. Your deficiencies in optical function were put on full display for everyone to see and you were called four-eyes back in grade school. You’ve also endured the struggles of having your eyeglasses lost or broken at certain points leaving you practically blind. Here’s some consolation: Men find you so much more attractive with glasses. Some characteristics that are associated with eyeglasses involve intelligence, dependability, and humility. Since eyes are a window to the soul, consider your glasses an extra pair of windows that only add to your value.
Yes, ladies. Perfume works. When men get subtle whiffs of your seductive aroma, it has the potential to make him fall head over heels for you. These aromas arouse something inside a man’s brain that directly contribute to attraction and attachment. It also lets men know that you care about your grooming and how you conduct yourself whenever you find yourself in public.
7. Eye Contact
A woman who maintains eye contact is someone who is confident in who she is, how she looks, and what she says. Confidence always finds its way into a man’s heart. Also, the eyes will probably be one of the most seductive parts of any woman’s body, so make the most out of it.
A witty woman is someone who can think on her feet and knows the right thing to say at the right time. Every man can easily fall for someone who can maintain the brightness in a room with the sharpness of her mind and the eloquence of her mouth. Your wit is your ally when you’re trying to win over the heart of any man, don’t let that gift go to waste.
Intelligence may not necessarily win your man at the start, but in the depths of a long-term relationship, intelligence can go a long way in keeping the passion burning. A man loves an intelligent woman who he can rely on to be there for him when he needs it. Put your intelligence on full display every time you’re with him and watch him fall for you over and over again.
An adventurous woman is a fun woman, and men never want to be bored with their relationships. They are attracted to girls who know how to keep things fresh and lively. They want someone who is willing to try new activities and go on adventures with them. They like women who aren’t so tightly wound and know how to have fun every so often.
Here are some things that absolutely confirm your man is crazy about you:
1. He Lets You Choose The Channel Even Though He’s Missing The Game
When your man is fully engrossed in the finals match of his favorite sporting league, and you ask him if you could switch over to watch Grey’s Anatomy instead, he’ll willingly oblige if he’s crazy about you. He won’t like it, but he loves you too much to say no to you.
2. He Follows You Wherever
He’ll even uproot his entire life if needed. Wherever you want to be is where he wants to be. If he promises to always be at your side, then he’s definitely crazy about you.
3. He Holds Your Things For You When You Need It
There’s nothing manly about having to hold a purse for a prolonged period of time. Guys hate it when you let them hold your purses for you, but if they’re still willing to do it, then that means they’re crazy about you and they’ll do whatever they can to make you happy. So the next time you have to go into the changing room for a fitting while shopping, try asking him to hold your purse for you. If he agrees, then he’s a keeper, ladies.
4. He Gets Fit For You
He always wants you to be crazy about him, and that includes keeping himself fit so that he’s easier on your eyes. He’s constantly doing things to make you happy because his own personal happiness depends on it. He’s absolutely head over heels for you.
5. He Drives You Everywhere
Who needs a chauffeur when you have a boyfriend who’s crazy about you and is willing to drive you wherever you want to go? He’s better than an Uber driver because he also gives you gifts and lets you crank up the music of the car whenever you please.
6. He Treats Your Friends Like They Are His Own
He knows how important your friends are to you and so they’re important to him as well. He is always making an effort to care for them and win their hearts over just so you know that he’s all-in with this relationship.
7. He Buys Your Feminine Products For You
It’s humiliating, ladies. Believe us. Guys don’t like walking into a 7/11 having to buy some tampons. There are unspeakable levels of awkwardness once he gets to the counter. But he’s willing to go through out because it’s for you.
8. He Watches RomComs With You
Yeah, that new Emma Stone and Ryan Gosling flick? He hates it. He doesn’t want to go see it. But he wants to be with you, so if you’re going to go see it, he’ll be right at your side with a bucket of popcorn for sharing.
9. He Opens Up To You
Men don’t like to be vulnerable in any capacity, particularly in the realms of emotions. He doesn’t like to open up to just anyone, but you’re a special case because you’re you. There’s nothing he wouldn’t do for you.
10. He Gets His Hands Dirty So You Can Keep Yours Clean
The car needs fixing? The light bulb needs changing? The kitchen sink needs cleaning? Don’t worry about it. He’s got you. You can just sit back and relax while watching him go to work. Be nice and reward him with a beer after.
11. He Takes Care of You When You’re Sick
You’re the love of his life and he never wants anything bad to happen to you. It breaks him inside to see you feeling weak and he wishes he could just take all of that pain on your behalf.
12. He Visits You At Your Place of Work
He listens to you when you rant on and on about how work can get really boring or really stressful. He understands that you need a pick-me-up every now and then. He’s also crazy enough about you to actually visit you at work and help you get through a difficult day.